So there's this kid at work. He works for the survey company that works for us and that we kind of own, so he comes into the office between four and five every day. He's got a big sandy beard. He reminds me of a teddy bear. A few months ago he asked me out, but I told him I had a boyfriend, because he seemed really nice and all that would end up happening is that I would break him. And he seemed like he didn't deserve it.
But now I think I've kind of changed my mind. I would be gentle, I promise. And I heard him talking shit on this guy at the survey company who he thinks is an asshole, so he's not a total wuss so maybe I would like him. (But talking shit in a rational, "this guy's an asshole and treats his workers poorly and Tony (another guy) totally got the shaft by not being promoted instead of the asshole" kind of way). But of course now I'm all shy and nervous and don't know how to go about anything.
I'll try to come up with a game plan in the next few weeks. Hopefully I'll spontaneously get a burst of "balls", as it were, and just ask him out.